有得有失

you win some, you lose some (idiom) / gains and losses / trade-off

to have; there is / (bound form) having; with; -ful; -ed; -al (as in 有意[you3 yi4] intentional)

to obtain / to get / to gain / to catch (a disease) / proper / suitable / proud / contented / to allow / to permit / ready / finished

structural particle: used after a verb (or adjective as main verb), linking it to following phrase indicating effect, degree, possibility etc

to have to / must / ought to / to need to

to cause a loss of (decorum, dignity etc) (used in fixed expressions)

to lose / to miss / to fail