有失

to cause a loss of (decorum, dignity etc) (used in fixed expressions)

to have; there is / (bound form) having; with; -ful; -ed; -al (as in 有意[you3 yi4] intentional)

to lose / to miss / to fail

lit. just as humans make mistakes, so can a horse stumble (idiom) / fig. everyone makes mistakes / even the best fall down sometimes

rushed work leads to errors (idiom)

to be ungenerous

to be beneath one's dignity

(polite) excuse me for not going out to meet you

you win some, you lose some (idiom) / gains and losses / trade-off