事与愿违

things turn out contrary to the way one wishes (idiom)

matter / thing / item / work / affair / CL:件[jian4],樁|桩[zhuang1],回[hui2]

variant of 歟|欤[yu2]

and / to give / together with

to take part in

honest / prudent / variant of 願|愿[yuan4]

to hope / to wish / to desire / hoped-for / ready / willing

to disobey / to violate / to separate / to go against