欲取姑與

to make concessions for the sake of future gains (idiom)

to take / to get / to choose / to fetch

desire / appetite / passion / lust / greed

to wish for / to desire / variant of 慾|欲[yu4]

paternal aunt / husband's sister / husband's mother (old) / nun / for the time being (literary)

variant of 歟|欤[yu2]

and / to give / together with

to take part in