温文尔雅

cultured and refined (idiom); gentle and cultivated

surname Wen

warm / lukewarm / temperature / to warm up / mild / soft / tender / to review (a lesson etc) / fever (TCM) / old variant of 瘟[wen1]

genteel

language / culture / writing / formal / literary / gentle / (old) classifier for coins / Kangxi radical 67

variant of 爾|尔[er3]

thus / so / like that / you / thou

"Erya" or "The Ready Guide", first extant Chinese dictionary, c. 3rd century BC, with glossaries on classical texts

elegant