喪棒

funeral stick (held by the son as a sign of filial piety)

mourning / funeral / (old) corpse

to lose sth abstract but important (courage, authority, one's life etc) / to be bereaved of (one's spouse etc) / to die / disappointed / discouraged

stick / club / cudgel / smart / capable / strong / wonderful / classifier for legs of a relay race

mourning staff draped in white, held at a funeral to show filial piety